Put baby in daycare. Got laid off. Took baby to Europe for 3 weeks.
2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
Last year I resolved to send 5 thank you letters, and I think I got close? I honestly forgot that I made that resolution, so didn’t track myself. I also wanted to transition back to work gracefully, and after one of the worst weeks of my life (starting J in daycare), work was just fine. Until the company laid off 20% of the staff, but whatever, that’s not on me. For next year? I resolve to do my best to enjoy the new baby and still manage to give J the attention she deserves.
4. Did anyone close to you die?
5. What countries did you visit?
We went to Dallas in February, Toronto in May, and Iceland, Denmark, Sweden, Finland and Estonia in September. I also went on a couple of work field trips to Northern Alberta and BC. Doesn’t really compare to Northern Europe. At all.
6. What would you like to have in 2013 that you lacked in 2012?
I don’t know. This year has been pretty great. Less uncertainty, I guess? I hated the Schrodinger’s Cat feeling while waiting to see if I survived the work purge or not, and waiting to see if I was pregnant, and then seeing if it would stick.
7. What dates from 2013 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
The 23 days in Europe will probably be my strongest date memory from this year. Especially as I can’t actually remember what day I finally peed on a stick.
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Taking an 18 month toddler to Europe and having an amazing trip. Everyone always talks about how stressful and terrible traveling with toddlers can be, but it was amazing. In part because I planned the hell out of the trip (even printing walking maps for every bit of the trip) and in part because we didn’t plan anything once we were in the cities (playing each day by ear and mood and weather.) And also, in part, because we’ve done our best to make J a flexible baby. (Sure, it was probably luck, but I have to take a little credit for having such an awesome kid.)
9. What was your biggest failure?
Falling to absoulte peices when Jess started daycare. I called it Dead Dead bad, because it really was about that bad. I feel a bit stupid in hindsight, as J has unquestionably flourished in daycare.
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
The first trimester of this pregnancy has sucked. Hard.
11. What was the best thing you bought?
Vacations. Always vacations. The memory of Jess’s first steps in Dallas. Her first multi-word sentence in Denmark. Her stealing the sardine head off the plate to sneakily eat it. Money buys vacations which make precious memories. Money well spent, always.
12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
David is such a great, amazing dad and partner.
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
American politics. God, I’m glad I’m Canadian.
14. Where did most of your money go?
Vacations, for sure. Also, house stuff and hockey games.
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
16. What song will always remind you of 2013?
The chorus of Said the Whale’s Emerald Lake, AB don’t read like much, but as a strong happy repeating chorus they are glorious.
All the blood that I would bleed
I don’t know where I belong
I don’t know where I went wrong
But I can write a song
I belong with you, you belong with me, you’re my sweet
I can feel they fall short
Turn the dial, chime alarm, chime alarm
Watch these hands move apart
Turn the dial on my words
17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
a) happier or sadder? Happier.
b) thinner or fatter? Fatter. I’m going to get so big this pregnancy, I’m sure. So far, no weight gain, but I have a belly already.
c) richer or poorer? Richer. Especially after the severance cheque.
18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
I spent the whole summer wanting to walk to the Reservoir, get an ice cream and go for a family walk. We someone didn’t quite make it.
19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
20. How did you spend Christmas?
At the inlaws, then my mom’s. Lots of family time, lots of presents, lots of J being adorable.
21. Did you fall in love in 2013?
Not with anyone new.
22. What was your favorite TV program?
Can’t choose. Community, Parks and Rec, The Office, How I Met Your Mother, Doctor Who, Modern Love, The League, Happy Endings, Always Sunny in Philadelphia… We watch a lot of sitcoms and British shows, and I love them all.
23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
I had a work nemesis, so that was fun. She was a giant bitch and she wanted the layoff package and didn’t get it. I laughed.
24. What was the best book you read?
I read over a hundred books. I couldn’t even start to pick a favourite.
25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
The Joy Formidable. Said the Whale. Lumineers. Serena Ryder.
26. What did you want and get?
To go to Europe. To get pregnant again. To advance in my career.
27. What did you want and not get?
To keep my job until mat leave. A bunch of very happy reactions to our pregnancy news.
28. What was your favorite film of this year?
Another year of seeing almost no movies in the theatre. I did really like the new Star Trek movie so let’s go with that one.
29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I turned 32. I got laid off the week before. I went for a bunch of massages. On my birth day, I felt pregnantly terrible and D made us KD for dinner. The next night we went out for a 3 course fondue meal and D took me to a Said the Whale show at the university. It was awesome.
30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Less Schrodinger’s Cat sensations.
31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2013?
32. What kept you sane?
David. Books. Exercise. Friends. The internet.
33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
34. What political issue stirred you the most?
Abortion in America. How is this still a debate?? I know I said that last year and the year before, but yet, here we are again.
35. Who did you miss?
36. Who was the best new person you met?
Not quite new, but a guy I worked with became a truly awesome mentor.
37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2013.
This too shall pass.